Older adults face a number of unique challenges; unfortunately, these challenges are heightened for older adults that identify as part of the LGBTQ+ community (Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer). While Baby Boomers are more likely to live alone than their parents, members of the LGBT community are three times more likely than the general population to not have children to help with their care. They are also more likely to experience discrimination. LGBTQ individuals are more likely to feel isolated, which can lead to a host of health issues. Although there may be resources near them, the individual may decide not to use the resource if they don’t feel safe, if they feel like they will need to “come out” multiple times, or if they worry that their support person(s) won’t be welcomed.
Below are some tips to make the aging journey easier:
SOCIAL
- Search for LGBTQ-friendly Senior/Community Centers
- Search for LGBTQ-friendly Churches
- Don’t be afraid to reach out to an LGBTQ-friendly hotline
- LGBT National Help Center (888) 234-7243
- Translifeline (877) 565-8860
- Find a support system
- Learn what resources are available in your community that are LGBTQ+ friendly
MEDICAL
- Find an LGBTQ-friendly doctor/medical professional
- Know the questions to ask your doctor
- Create a care plan that meets your medical needs
- Record your preferences for home/long-term care
- The Human Right Center publishes a Health Equality Index every year that examines health care policies that affect LGBTQ individuals.
LEGAL
- Know your rights …
- …In regards to housing and federally funded housing programs
- …In regards to mental health and health facilities
- …In regards to nursing homes
- Know how to advocate for yourself
- Know who to contact if you face discrimination
- Michigan Long Term Care Ombudsman Program (517) 827-8040
- Elder Law of Michigan (866) 400-9164
- Transgender Legal Defense & Education Fund
- Transgender Law Center
OTHER RESOURCES
- Download the Southeast Michigan Rainbow Resources Guide for Older Adults
- Call the Area Agency on Aging 1-B at (800) 852-7795 for resources in your area
- Call the SAGE Metro Detroit LGBT Elder Hotline at (888) 234-SAGE (7243)
- Jim Toy Community Center in Ann Arbor
- Resources for LGBTQ Veterans
- Click here and here for lists of national resources
Visit the Ahead of the Curve Resource Directory to find a variety of resources in your community. Be sure to select the box “LGBTQ Friendly” under special support to find welcoming organizations near you.
